Discovering the Journey of Findingthirty

Ah, the thirties. That magical decade where you’re supposed to have your shit together, but in reality, you’re just figuring out which version of “together” suits you best. If your twenties were a chaotic mixtape of questionable decisions and wild nights, your thirties are more like a Spotify playlist with a few guilty pleasures and some deep cuts you actually appreciate. Welcome to the rollercoaster of life in your thirties, buckle up, because it’s a bumpy, hilarious, and oddly comforting ride.

The Myth of Having It All Figured Out in Your Thirties

You know what? Nobody really has it all figured out. Not even those Instagram influencers with their perfectly curated lives and #blessed captions. Life in your thirties is less about having a master plan and more about embracing the glorious mess of trying to find one.

You might have a career that’s almost where you want it, a relationship that’s either thriving or a dumpster fire, and a social life that’s a delicate balance between “I need to go out” and “I need to stay in and binge watch.” It’s a decade of contradictions, where you’re simultaneously more confident and more confused than ever before.

Here’s a little secret, it’s okay to not have all the answers. In fact, it’s downright liberating.

The pressure to be perfect? Toss it out the window. Instead, focus on what makes you happy, what challenges you, and what scares you just enough to keep things interesting.

Finding comfort in the chaos of your thirties

Navigating Life in Your Thirties - The Real Deal

Life in your thirties isn’t just about career and relationships. It’s about everything, health, friendships, mental well being, and yes, even those pesky adulting tasks like taxes and insurance. Here’s a no nonsense guide to tackling the big stuff without losing your mind,

1. Career - The Never Ending Plot Twist

If you thought your career would be a straight line by now, welcome to the plot twist. Many of us find ourselves pivoting, upskilling, or downright reinventing our professional lives. The key? Stay curious and adaptable.

• Invest in yourself: Take courses, attend workshops, or just binge read industry blogs.

• Network like a pro: Not the awkward “let me add you on LinkedIn” kind, but genuine connections.

• Don’t fear failure: Every misstep is a lesson wrapped in a slightly embarrassing package.

  
  

2. Relationships - The Good, The Bad, and The WTF

Whether you’re single, married, or somewhere in between, relationships in your thirties come with their own set of challenges. People change, priorities shift, and sometimes you just need to ghost toxic vibes like a pro.

• Communicate openly: No, not just “How was your day?” but the deep stuff.

• Set boundaries: Because your time and energy are precious.

• Cherish the good ones: Friends and partners who get you, quirks and all.

  
  

3. Health - More Than Just Lettuce and Gym Memberships

Health in your thirties is a sneaky beast. Suddenly, hangovers last longer, and your metabolism decides to take a sabbatical. But it’s not all doom and gloom.

• Listen to your body: Rest when you need it, move when you can.

• Mental health matters: Therapy isn’t just for crises, it’s for growth.

• Find what works for you: Yoga, running, dancing in your living room, whatever keeps you sane, just fucking go for it.

  
  

Journaling as a tool for mental well-being in your thirties

Embracing the Chaos with a Side of Sarcasm

If life in your thirties were a TV show, it’d be a dramedy with a sarcastic narrator (yours truly). There’s something wildly freeing about laughing at your own disasters instead of crying into your third cup of tea.

Here’s how to keep your sanity intact:

• Celebrate small wins: Managed to get out of bed before noon? Gold star.

• Laugh at yourself: Because if you don’t, someone else will.

• Keep a sense of humour: It’s the duct tape holding your life together.

  
  

And if you ever feel lost, remember there’s a whole community out there sharing the same ridiculous, beautiful journey. One such place is FindingThirty, a brilliant (if I do say so myself) online space where women in their thirties swap stories, advice, and the occasional rant about life’s absurdities.

Practical Tips for Thriving (Not Just Surviving) in Your Thirties

Let’s get down to brass tacks. Thriving in your thirties isn’t about perfection, it’s about practical moves that make life smoother and more enjoyable. Here are some actionable tips,

• Create a budget that works for you: Adulting means money, and money means stress unless you have a plan.

• Prioritise self care: Not just bubble baths (though those help), but real, consistent habits.

• Build a support network: Friends, mentors, online communities, surround yourself with people who lift you up.

• Set realistic goals: Forget the 5 year plan, try a 6 month plan and adjust as you go.

• Learn to say no: Your time is a non renewable resource.

  
  

The Never Ending Adventure of Life in Your Thirties

So here we are, navigating the wild, unpredictable, and often hilarious journey of life in your thirties. It’s a decade that demands resilience, humour, and a healthy dose of self compassion. Because let's face it, we've all been through some shit right? But look at it like this, in our thirties, we've not actually been adults that long, we're still figuring it out, and that's totally normal. You’ll stumble, you’ll soar, and you’ll probably binge watch a lot of Netflix in between.

But above all, you’ll discover that this decade isn’t about having it all figured out. It’s about finding yourself, your tribe, and your version of happiness. And if you ever need a reminder that you’re not alone in this beautifully messy adventure, just remember there’s a whole community cheering you on.

Keep your chin up, your sarcasm sharp, and your heart open. The best is yet to come.

Hi, I'm Charlie.

UK based blogger, beauty therapist and skincare specialist of 16 years, award winning brand owner, and reluctant adult. This blog is where I share everything that doesn’t fit on the back of a palette, thoughts, routines, breakdowns, realness, recommendations, and reminders that you’re not alone in this. I’m not here to sell you perfection. I'm here to show you how beautiful imperfection can be.

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